Monday 25 February 2008

Infidelity

I believe that infidelity is one of the most horrible things that can happen in a relationship.I wouldn't want it to happen to myself . A relationship is nothing without trust and i feel that if this was broken it would be very difficult to repair.Yet it happens, you only have to read about celebrities to see this.Why do people do it?To much to drink?, need to have something different now and then?, don't feel loved by their spouse?,excitement?,danger?Who knows ?only the people that do it can answer that question.

"Infidelity is a breach of faith,and occurs in a number of contexts (e.g.,in religious contexts).Also called cheating:`any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship`. What constitutes an act of infidelity varies between and within cultures.It does not depend on the presence of sexual behaviour.Even within a close relationship, people might have very different ideas and perceptions of infidelity."


Cheating is an act of lying and deception.

Deception is the act of convincing another to believe information that is not true.

Betrayal,as a form of deception is the breaking of a presumptive contract (trust, or confidence) that produces moral and psychological conflict within a relationship amongst individuals.

Adultery is voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and one who is not his/her spouse.





Infidelity in film;


















Closer is a film involving deception,infidelity,intimacy and sacrifice.

















Derailed is a film about a married school teacher (Clive Owen) whose marriage is falling apart due to the stresses of caring for their seriously ill daughter. He meets a women (Jennifer Aniston) and starts an affair only for it to end in violence,blackmail,prison and murder.






















Random Hearts is about two people who meet when both partners are killed in a plain crash,they realise that they were having an affair.It is about grief and betrayal.


Infidelity in song;

"Me and Mrs Jones" performed by soul singer Billy Paul 1972. It describes a extramarital affair between a man and his lover.

"Saving all my love for you" performed by Witney Houston 1985. It is about a love affair with a married man.

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